Today marks a pretty amazing milestone, at least for me.
For the first time since I started freelance writing, I’ve had to notify clients, and potential clients, that I have a full workload, and I’m not likely to take on any more work, unless I find the project personally interesting and the budget is equally interesting.
For me, getting to this point has been relatively quick; there are writers who slog at it for years, trying to fill up their billable hours with work, and never quite make it. Suffice it to say, I’m feeling a slight tinge of pride (if you think pride goes before a fall, please fall out of your chair here; nobody ever mentioned whose fall pride precedes).
But my move into freelancing was borne out of necessity, and like all of us I was desperate for work when I began. The desperation to have enough money to feed your family, fuel the car and pay the rent on time causes a sense of panic some would compare to the sensation of suffocating: gasping for more air, and not getting it. Feeling strained and closer to the end of it all by the moment.
Looking back in retrospect over the journey from suffocation to satisfaction, it becomes clear that the tough times are some of the most useful times of a freelancing career. The suffocation is a sense of urgency, an urgency that spurs you on and on to achieve what you need to achieve.
You can’t take a sick day. You can’t take a day to relax. You can’t afford to get distracted by Twitter even for fifteen minutes without feeling like you’ve squandered precious time (though it needs to be said that you can sometimes, if you’re lucky and smart, find clients through Twitter).
Put the sense of urgency to good use. Don’t sacrifice quality by taking shortcuts to get a half-baked result sooner, but do let it spur you on and motivate you. Carry the strength of that motivation with you even when your financial difficulties have passed.
For some, that desperation is fleeting. Once they’ve built a basic client base, even one that barely manages to put plain rice on the dinner menu, they fall back into their comfort zone.
“We’re breaking even now, at least,” they say.
The best thing you can do is cultivate the motivation that is derived from this desperation and make it part of who you are. You don’t want to keep the desperation that comes with it, of course. That just leads to stress. But self-motivation is one of those key aspects of being a great freelancer, like that other principle about how to be the best freelancer.
Don’t become complacent. Not now, not ever. Don’t get comfortable, and don’t get stagnant. Continue to challenge yourself, grow and explore new places and directions.
Most of all, make the most of the tough times and see the excitement and urgency it provides as a bonus, not a negative, because the sheer adrenaline that has you pulling 23 hour days won’t last forever.
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12 Responses
Thomas Murphy
July 16th, 2008 at 9:09 pm
1Your words about being a great freelancer, in some way have implications on our daily lives, and without motivation we wouldn’t be able to get up in the morning and drink our coffee.
I’m really happy for you that you are in a position in your life that you are able to say NO to work.
I believe that a positive view on life can take you to places that you have never even dreamed of and during though times positive thinking will set you free from self-pity and give you the boost that you need in order to start a new period in life with more success on the side.
Meryl K. Evans
July 16th, 2008 at 10:17 pm
2My plate overfloweth, but I can’t bring myself to post a message like yours, Joel. You just never know if something falls through or it takes time to ramp up and by the time it does, something else winds down. What I do is try to get to determine if the client and I are a fit as quickly as possible — instead of discuss, quote, and then find we’re not a match.
Recently, I took a bold step (for me anyway). When a prospect contacted me — the message began with… “How much for…” This sent signals that the prospect was more about money than quality. So I responded that if price is a focus, that maybe I was not the right person for the job.
And it was. Imagine if I had spent time studying the web site and then carefully coming up with a quote…
Meryl K. Evans
July 16th, 2008 at 10:17 pm
3By the way, congratulations on the wonderful milestone, Joel!
James Chartrand - Men with Pens
July 16th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
4Well said, Joel. Never become complacent. Never expect overnight miracles, be grateful when they happen, and assume that tomorrow’s wealth is undetermined.
But ALWAYS assume that tomorrow’s wealth is possible. It only depends on how you go about making it happen.
I always keep in the back of my mind that our success can disappear overnight. I also know that I’ve come this far - I can do it again.
But I treat every day as my last day and I’m thankful for the good things it brings. And I always make sure I’m looking ahead to see what I can do to keep good things coming.
Marelisa
July 17th, 2008 at 12:32 am
5Joel: I’m so glad that you’ve reached this milestone, and it’s kind of you to share your journey with us. You’re talented and you obviously have a strong work ethic, and with those two ingredients you can get far in life.
Vered
July 17th, 2008 at 5:44 am
6Inspiring. I often wonder, if it’s possible to succeed if you don’t have the drive to succeed. And whether the only way to have the drive is to have an urgent need (such as feeding a family).
Oh, and CONGRATULATIONS. You write well. Your content is useful and interesting. You are hard working and highly disciplined. If anyone deserves success, it’s you. You have every right to be proud.
Janice Cartier
July 17th, 2008 at 5:53 am
7Joel,
Beautifully written and well founded words. It’s so easy to become lulled into repeating a successful creation, merely because it works. When the real juice is behind what brought it into being in the first place. Kudos to you and much good luck with your ventures.
Sara at On Simplicity
July 17th, 2008 at 3:59 pm
8“If you think pride goes before a fall, please fall out of your chair here; nobody ever mentioned whose fall pride precedes.”
This is pretty much the best sentence I’ve read all week. Absolutely fabulous.
And from an opposite experience, I have to agree with your point. Trying to kickstart a freelance career with a healthy cash cushion and plump safety net below was a recipe for failure. (At least in my case, at one point in time.)
Finally, congratulations on reaching your current success. It’s wonderful to hear, and I’m very happy for you.
Links: 2008-07-18 | Meryl.net
July 19th, 2008 at 1:09 am
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Shilpan | successsoul.com
July 19th, 2008 at 2:32 pm
10Joel -
I’m so glad mate that you’re are ascending your career in the blogosphere so well. As James said, we all should work as if there is no tomorrow. We never know when our destination(dream) will show up but we shall always remember that there should not be any doubt in our mind that our destination WILL show up some day. I’m glad that yours has already arrived. Shilpan
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July 21st, 2008 at 5:18 am
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Joel Falconer
July 21st, 2008 at 12:07 pm
12I’m sorry it has taken me so long to come back to this post and respond to your comments like I usually do. This has been a killer of a week! I got ill three times in one week, if you can believe that, and as I mentioned in the post, freelancers don’t get sick days.
Thank you for your words of support and encouragement. It really does mean a lot to hear it from all of you. I should mention that I am still taking on jobs, but I’m in a position now where I can be picky and I can control the flow better. And if I don’t take on new jobs, I’m still in a place where I’m able to pay the bills and perhaps catch a movie with my wife.
I know there are a lot of freelance writers who are still getting there, and I hope this post doesn’t make you resentful, but rather gives you some inspiration. It is possible, even if you’ve been plugging at it for years. Reignite the passion and motivation and work at it hard enough, and it’ll happen. And as James Chartrand has said to me, write with attitude—it sure as hell helps! Your potential clients are emotional beings too, and if what they read from you in your portfolio can affect them emotionally, you’ve got the job.
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